Healthy Relationships Toolkit
Everyone deserves healthy, happy relationships across the lifespan. We know it can be hard to find reliable, up to date resources to start a conversation. So we've rounded up resources on topics from consent to technology to local resources and more for you.
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Affirmative Consent
Link takes you to a PDF
This app explores harassment, impersonation, and safety online and with phones, other devices, and your location. You will find tips to increase your privacy and safety. There are also resources on documenting what’s happening and where to go for help.
Middle School • High School
Teaching Consent from a young age
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This poster is an example of a greetings agreement, teaching young people to communicate what type of greeting and physical touch they feel comfortable with and how to respect others boundaries as well. Can be used in classrooms, preschools or in places that work with children.
All Ages
How To Talk to Your Kids About Consent
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This bookmark has ideas with age appropriate topics to start talking to kids about consent at every age.
All Ages
What Does Stalking Look Like
Link takes you to OPCC Gloucestershire’s website
This graphic explains what stalking can actually look like. The article talks more about the realities of stalking.
Middle School • High School • Adults
What To Do If You Are Being Stalked
Link takes you to an image on ECHA’s website
This image has key tips for what to do if you are being stalked.
All Ages
Common Reactions to Being Stalked
Link takes you to an image on ECHA’s website
This image describes some common reactions to being stalked.
All Ages
Power & Control Wheel - LGBTQ+ Relationships
Link takes you to an image on ECHA’s website
What do power and control look like in an unhealthy LGBTQ+ relationship? This wheel shows how power and control can be used against someone in an LGBTQ+ relationship.
All Ages
Cycle of Violence
Link takes you to an image on ECHA’s website
The cycle of violence is a pattern of behaviors which keeps survivors locked in the abusive relationship. Understanding the cycle of violence is crucial in stopping relationship violence.
Middle School • High School • Post-Secondary
Teen Dating Equality Wheel
Link takes you to a PDF on ICFS’ website
The Equality Wheel is a visual representation of the qualities necessary for healthy relationships.
Middle School • High School
Power & Control Wheel
Link takes you to an image on ECHA’s website
The Power & Control wheel is a helpful tool in understanding the overall pattern of abusive and violent behaviors, which is caused by a batterer to establish and maintain control over their partner.
Middle School • High School • Post-Secondary
Power & Control Wheel - Teens
Link takes you to an image on ECHA’s website
This wheel identifies behaviors used to exert power and control over dating partners.
Middle School • High School
Victim Blaming
Link takes you to Wisconsin Dept. of Health’s website
Infographic that includes definition of victim blaming, and how we can change our language to support survivors and help make violence not normalized.
Middle School • High School
Teen Dating Violence
Link takes you to Wisconsin Dept. of Health’s website
Infographic that include definition of teen dating violence, signs of abuse and statistics of how many teens have experienced dating violence, and how to support someone when you see or hear harm being done.
Middle School • High School