Healthy Relationships Toolkit
Everyone deserves healthy, happy relationships across the lifespan. We know it can be hard to find reliable, up to date resources to start a conversation. So we've rounded up resources on topics from consent to technology to local resources and more for you.
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Safe Dates
Link takes you to Hazelden Publishing’s website
This evidence-based program helps teens recognize the difference between caring, supportive relationships and controlling, manipulative, or abusive relationships. It is during the critical preteen and teen years that young people begin to learn the skills needed to create and foster positive relationships. Safe Dates equips young people with the tools they need to develop these important life skills. Highly engaging and interactive, Safe Dates reflects the issues today's teens face. This is intended to be facilitated by trained facilitators. In Eau Claire County, we facilitate Safe Dates at Augusta High School, Fall Creek High School, McKinley Charter School, ECASD schools through Systems of Care and Life Without Limits, and through community organizations including Eau Claire Area Hmong Mutual Assistance Association's Building Bridges program, Western Dairyland's Fresh Start Program and more.
Middle School • High School
3 Rs (Rights, Respect, Responsibilty
Link takes you to UUA’s website
This is a sex education curriculum with individual lessons for K-12 students to learn skills and adopt healthy behaviors. Lessons are on a many topics and many are available in English and Spanish.
K-12
Dating Matters: Strategies to Promote HR in Teens
Link takes you to the CDC’s website
This is an evidence-based teen dating violence prevention model that focuses on teaching 11-14 year-olds healthy relationship skills and reducing behaviors that increase the risk for dating violence.
Middle School
Love is Respect Educator Toolkit
Link takes you to Love is Respect’s website
This guide can be used in classrooms to start discussions on healthy relationships and model appropriate behaviors through words and actions.
Middle School • High School
Sex Education Tools for Educators
Link takes you to Planned Parenthood’s website
Planned Parenthood education departments provide a robust range of programming options. Evidence-based and delivered by trained professionals as well as options for teachers in their own classrooms
Middle School • High School
Cycle of Violence
Link takes you to an image on ECHA’s website
The cycle of violence is a pattern of behaviors which keeps survivors locked in the abusive relationship. Understanding the cycle of violence is crucial in stopping relationship violence.
Middle School • High School • Post-Secondary
Teen Dating Equality Wheel
Link takes you to a PDF on ICFS’ website
The Equality Wheel is a visual representation of the qualities necessary for healthy relationships.
Middle School • High School
Power & Control Wheel
Link takes you to an image on ECHA’s website
The Power & Control wheel is a helpful tool in understanding the overall pattern of abusive and violent behaviors, which is caused by a batterer to establish and maintain control over their partner.
Middle School • High School • Post-Secondary
Power & Control Wheel - Teens
Link takes you to an image on ECHA’s website
This wheel identifies behaviors used to exert power and control over dating partners.
Middle School • High School
The Relationship Spectrum
Link takes you to a PDF on Love is Respect’s website
This handout helps youth determine where their relationship lies on the spectrum of healthy, unhealthy, and abusive actions.
Middle School • High School • Post-Secondary
Pause for a Child
Link takes you to a PDF
This handout outlines specific ways parents can model healthy relationship attributes/skills.
All Ages
Dare2Know: Likes or Yikes Quiz
Link takes you to Dare2Know’s quiz
Presents scenarios including being a good friend, dating and boundaries.
K-12
Am I A Good Partner? (Quiz)
Link takes you to Love is Respect’s Website
A quiz designed to help youth understand if they are exhibiting healthy relationship behaviors towards their partner.
Middle School • High School
Can An Abusive Partner Change? (Quiz)
Link takes you to Love is Respect’s Website
Empowers young people to prevent and end abusive relationships. Also includes quiz to determine if relationship is becoming abuse-free.
High School
Love is Respect: Healthy Relationship Quiz
Link takes you to a PDF
Everyone deserves to be in a safe and healthy relationship. Do you know if your relationship is healthy? Take this quiz to find out.
Middle School • High School
Victim Blaming
Link takes you to Wisconsin Dept. of Health’s website
Infographic that includes definition of victim blaming, and how we can change our language to support survivors and help make violence not normalized.
Middle School • High School
Love is Respect: Would you Help Quiz
Link takes you to Love is Respect’s Website
A quiz designed to show how ready and willing a person is to help a friend that may be in an abusive relationship.
Middle School • High School
Teen Dating Violence
Link takes you to Wisconsin Dept. of Health’s website
Infographic that include definition of teen dating violence, signs of abuse and statistics of how many teens have experienced dating violence, and how to support someone when you see or hear harm being done.
Middle School • High School