Healthy Relationships Toolkit

Everyone deserves healthy, happy relationships across the lifespan. We know it can be hard to find reliable, up to date resources to start a conversation. So we've rounded up resources on topics from consent to technology to local resources and more for you.


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Stalking: Information

Link takes you to a PDF on SPARC’s website

This brochure has information on stalking, who stalkers are, what stalkers do and how you can be safe.

Middle School • High School • Adults
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Stalking Information

Link takes you to SPARC’s website

The Stalking Prevention Awareness and Resource Center (SPARC) has lots of posters, brochures, and flyers with information and resources about stalking in English and Spanish.

Middle School • High School • Adults
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Identifying Stalking Behaviors

Link takes you to the SPARC’s website

This link has lots of information on identifying stalking and tips for responders to help victims navigate stalking situations safely.

Middle School • High School • Adults
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Stalking Safety Strategies

Link takes you to a PDF on SPARC’s website

This fact sheet has safety planning strategies for victims of stalking including safety at the workplace and school, safety at home, and safety around technology.

Middle School • High School • Adults
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What Does Stalking Look Like

Link takes you to OPCC Gloucestershire’s website

This graphic explains what stalking can actually look like. The article talks more about the realities of stalking.

Middle School • High School • Adults
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Stalking: Connecting the Dots

Link takes you to a PDF on Coercive Control’s website

This fact sheet has statistics, descriptions of stalking behaviors, things to beware of, questions to assess situation, and steps for protection outside of calling the police.

All Ages
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Safe Dates

Link takes you to Hazelden Publishing’s website

This evidence-based program helps teens recognize the difference between caring, supportive relationships and controlling, manipulative, or abusive relationships. It is during the critical preteen and teen years that young people begin to learn the skills needed to create and foster positive relationships. Safe Dates equips young people with the tools they need to develop these important life skills. Highly engaging and interactive, Safe Dates reflects the issues today's teens face. This is intended to be facilitated by trained facilitators. In Eau Claire County, we facilitate Safe Dates at Augusta High School, Fall Creek High School, McKinley Charter School, ECASD schools through Systems of Care and Life Without Limits, and through community organizations including Eau Claire Area Hmong Mutual Assistance Association's Building Bridges program, Western Dairyland's Fresh Start Program and more.

Middle School • High School
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Cycle of Violence

Link takes you to an image on ECHA’s website

The cycle of violence is a pattern of behaviors which keeps survivors locked in the abusive relationship. Understanding the cycle of violence is crucial in stopping relationship violence.

Middle School • High School • Post-Secondary
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Power & Control Wheel

Link takes you to an image on ECHA’s website

The Power & Control wheel is a helpful tool in understanding the overall pattern of abusive and violent behaviors, which is caused by a batterer to establish and maintain control over their partner.

Middle School • High School • Post-Secondary
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Power & Control Wheel - Teens

Link takes you to an image on ECHA’s website

This wheel identifies behaviors used to exert power and control over dating partners.

Middle School • High School
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The Relationship Spectrum

Link takes you to a PDF on Love is Respect’s website

This handout helps youth determine where their relationship lies on the spectrum of healthy, unhealthy, and abusive actions.

Middle School • High School • Post-Secondary
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Am I A Good Partner? (Quiz)

Link takes you to Love is Respect’s Website

A quiz designed to help youth understand if they are exhibiting healthy relationship behaviors towards their partner.

Middle School • High School
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Can An Abusive Partner Change? (Quiz)

Link takes you to Love is Respect’s Website

Empowers young people to prevent and end abusive relationships. Also includes quiz to determine if relationship is becoming abuse-free.

High School
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Love is Respect: Healthy Relationship Quiz

Link takes you to a PDF

Everyone deserves to be in a safe and healthy relationship. Do you know if your relationship is healthy? Take this quiz to find out.

Middle School • High School
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Victim Blaming

Link takes you to Wisconsin Dept. of Health’s website

Infographic that includes definition of victim blaming, and how we can change our language to support survivors and help make violence not normalized.

Middle School • High School
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Love is Respect: Would you Help Quiz

Link takes you to Love is Respect’s Website

A quiz designed to show how ready and willing a person is to help a friend that may be in an abusive relationship.

Middle School • High School
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