Healthy Relationships Toolkit

Everyone deserves healthy, happy relationships across the lifespan. We know it can be hard to find reliable, up to date resources to start a conversation. So we've rounded up resources on topics from consent to technology to local resources and more for you.


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Safe Dates

Link takes you to Hazelden Publishing’s website

This evidence-based program helps teens recognize the difference between caring, supportive relationships and controlling, manipulative, or abusive relationships. It is during the critical preteen and teen years that young people begin to learn the skills needed to create and foster positive relationships. Safe Dates equips young people with the tools they need to develop these important life skills. Highly engaging and interactive, Safe Dates reflects the issues today's teens face. This is intended to be facilitated by trained facilitators. In Eau Claire County, we facilitate Safe Dates at Augusta High School, Fall Creek High School, McKinley Charter School, ECASD schools through Systems of Care and Life Without Limits, and through community organizations including Eau Claire Area Hmong Mutual Assistance Association's Building Bridges program, Western Dairyland's Fresh Start Program and more.

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HIP Teens

Link takes you to the CDC’s website

HIP Teens is a group-level, gender-specific and developmentally tailored sexual risk-reduction intervention. The intervention is delivered to groups of 6 -9 adolescents and is designed to provide HIV prevention information, to increase readiness to reduce risk behaviors, and to instruct, model, and allow sexually active adolescent females to practice interpersonal and self-management skills that facilitate sexual risk reduction and condom use. Sessions include developmentally appropriate strategies such as games, activities, and skits, as well as opportunities for role playing and receiving positive reinforcement from facilitators and other participants. Early sessions practice basic skills and review simple situations. As sessions progress, scenarios become more challenging and draw on participants’ experience. In Eau Claire County this program is currently facilitated with ECASD through the Systems of Care, Life Without Limits, Western Dairyland's Fresh Start, McKinley Charter School and the Juvenile Detention Center.

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CBIM

Link takes you to Coaching Boys Into Men’s website

This is a program for coaches working with male-identified youth during sports practices, warm ups, locker room talks, etc)

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Right to Be

Link takes you to Right To Be’s website

Bystander Intervention Training to teach people how to stop harassment, using safe and effective methods (formerly Hollaback Bystander Intervention).

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Our Whole Lives (OWL)

Link takes you to UUA’s website

20 sessions - taught locally through Unitarian Universalist churches, but secular (available for k-12, YA and older adults - across the lifespan, but only taught for MS/HS locally)

Middle School • High School
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Sex Education Tools for Educators

Link takes you to Planned Parenthood’s website

Planned Parenthood education departments provide a robust range of programming options. Evidence-based and delivered by trained professionals as well as options for teachers in their own classrooms

Middle School • High School
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Sexual Health Information for Teens

Link takes you to Planned Parenthood’s website

Topics include: sex, STIs, birth control, pregnancy, puberty, going to the doctor, relationships, bullying, safety & privacy, LGBTQ, All About Sex, Gender, and Gender Identity, & sexual orientation. Interactive Videos & Games are also available for teens to learn about various topics.

Middle School • High School
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Be the Solution : Game & Discussion Guide

Link takes you to WCSAP’s website

Role plays, activities, and questions on consent, friends, boundaries, dating, hopes and beliefs, sex, and respect.

Middle School • High School
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Cycle of Violence

Link takes you to an image on ECHA’s website

The cycle of violence is a pattern of behaviors which keeps survivors locked in the abusive relationship. Understanding the cycle of violence is crucial in stopping relationship violence.

Middle School • High School • Post-Secondary
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Teen Dating Equality Wheel

Link takes you to a PDF on ICFS’ website

The Equality Wheel is a visual representation of the qualities necessary for healthy relationships.

Middle School • High School
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Power & Control Wheel

Link takes you to an image on ECHA’s website

The Power & Control wheel is a helpful tool in understanding the overall pattern of abusive and violent behaviors, which is caused by a batterer to establish and maintain control over their partner.

Middle School • High School • Post-Secondary
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Power & Control Wheel - Teens

Link takes you to an image on ECHA’s website

This wheel identifies behaviors used to exert power and control over dating partners.

Middle School • High School
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