Healthy Relationships Toolkit
Everyone deserves healthy, happy relationships across the lifespan. We know it can be hard to find reliable, up to date resources to start a conversation. So we've rounded up resources on topics from consent to technology to local resources and more for you.
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Safe Dates
Link takes you to Hazelden Publishing’s website
This evidence-based program helps teens recognize the difference between caring, supportive relationships and controlling, manipulative, or abusive relationships. It is during the critical preteen and teen years that young people begin to learn the skills needed to create and foster positive relationships. Safe Dates equips young people with the tools they need to develop these important life skills. Highly engaging and interactive, Safe Dates reflects the issues today's teens face. This is intended to be facilitated by trained facilitators. In Eau Claire County, we facilitate Safe Dates at Augusta High School, Fall Creek High School, McKinley Charter School, ECASD schools through Systems of Care and Life Without Limits, and through community organizations including Eau Claire Area Hmong Mutual Assistance Association's Building Bridges program, Western Dairyland's Fresh Start Program and more.
Middle School • High School
HIP Teens
Link takes you to the CDC’s website
HIP Teens is a group-level, gender-specific and developmentally tailored sexual risk-reduction intervention. The intervention is delivered to groups of 6 -9 adolescents and is designed to provide HIV prevention information, to increase readiness to reduce risk behaviors, and to instruct, model, and allow sexually active adolescent females to practice interpersonal and self-management skills that facilitate sexual risk reduction and condom use. Sessions include developmentally appropriate strategies such as games, activities, and skits, as well as opportunities for role playing and receiving positive reinforcement from facilitators and other participants. Early sessions practice basic skills and review simple situations. As sessions progress, scenarios become more challenging and draw on participants’ experience. In Eau Claire County this program is currently facilitated with ECASD through the Systems of Care, Life Without Limits, Western Dairyland's Fresh Start, McKinley Charter School and the Juvenile Detention Center.
High School
Athlete's As Leaders
Link takes you to Athletes as Leaders’ website
This is a program for coaches working with female-identified youth during sports practices, warm ups, locker room talks, etc)
High School
Right to Be
Link takes you to Right To Be’s website
Bystander Intervention Training to teach people how to stop harassment, using safe and effective methods (formerly Hollaback Bystander Intervention).
3 Rs (Rights, Respect, Responsibilty
Link takes you to UUA’s website
This is a sex education curriculum with individual lessons for K-12 students to learn skills and adopt healthy behaviors. Lessons are on a many topics and many are available in English and Spanish.
K-12
Dating Matters: Strategies to Promote HR in Teens
Link takes you to the CDC’s website
This is an evidence-based teen dating violence prevention model that focuses on teaching 11-14 year-olds healthy relationship skills and reducing behaviors that increase the risk for dating violence.
Middle School
Love is Respect Educator Toolkit
Link takes you to Love is Respect’s website
This guide can be used in classrooms to start discussions on healthy relationships and model appropriate behaviors through words and actions.
Middle School • High School
My Sexual Health: My Future
Link takes you to…
Lessons on topics from communication to reproductive health
Middle School • High School
Our Whole Lives (OWL)
Link takes you to UUA’s website
20 sessions - taught locally through Unitarian Universalist churches, but secular (available for k-12, YA and older adults - across the lifespan, but only taught for MS/HS locally)
Middle School • High School
Sex Education Tools for Educators
Link takes you to Planned Parenthood’s website
Planned Parenthood education departments provide a robust range of programming options. Evidence-based and delivered by trained professionals as well as options for teachers in their own classrooms
Middle School • High School
Talking Sex, Puberty & Relationships: A Resource for Parents
Link takes you to Planned Parenthood’s website
Information about bodies, relationships, and identity broken down by age groups: preschool (ages 0-4), Elementary school (ages 5-8), MS/Pre-teens (ages 9-13), HS (ages 14-19)
All Ages
Sexual Health Information for Teens
Link takes you to Planned Parenthood’s website
Topics include: sex, STIs, birth control, pregnancy, puberty, going to the doctor, relationships, bullying, safety & privacy, LGBTQ, All About Sex, Gender, and Gender Identity, & sexual orientation. Interactive Videos & Games are also available for teens to learn about various topics.
Middle School • High School
Be the Solution : Game & Discussion Guide
Link takes you to WCSAP’s website
Role plays, activities, and questions on consent, friends, boundaries, dating, hopes and beliefs, sex, and respect.
Middle School • High School
Cycle of Violence
Link takes you to an image on ECHA’s website
The cycle of violence is a pattern of behaviors which keeps survivors locked in the abusive relationship. Understanding the cycle of violence is crucial in stopping relationship violence.
Middle School • High School • Post-Secondary
Teen Dating Equality Wheel
Link takes you to a PDF on ICFS’ website
The Equality Wheel is a visual representation of the qualities necessary for healthy relationships.
Middle School • High School
Power & Control Wheel
Link takes you to an image on ECHA’s website
The Power & Control wheel is a helpful tool in understanding the overall pattern of abusive and violent behaviors, which is caused by a batterer to establish and maintain control over their partner.
Middle School • High School • Post-Secondary
Power & Control Wheel - Teens
Link takes you to an image on ECHA’s website
This wheel identifies behaviors used to exert power and control over dating partners.
Middle School • High School